6 Adverse Effects of Overprotective Parenting

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Undoubtedly, overprotective parents have purest intentions while raising their young ones. They constantly hover around the kid’s life, to make them capable, self-confident and resilient adults.

But their parenting style yields totally opposite results. Unconsciously they do more harm than good by their over pampering nature. 

Do you have any characteristic signs of overprotective parents? Let’s see how protective parenting, also known as helicopter parenting, can adversely affect the child’s overall growth and development.

What Is The Meaning Of Overprotective Parenting?

As the word suggests, it is a parental protectiveness that gets exaggerated by a parent’s over concerning nature. Anything that is extreme, can have disadvantageous effects.

Helicopter or overprotective parenting is a mixed approach of authoritative parenting and permissive parenting.

6 Adverse Effects of Overprotective Parenting

Kids Are Prone To Depression

  • Overprotective parents raise oversensitive grown-ups. Oversensitive nature leads to anxiety and fear.
  • Parents know the harsh life realities and that is why they keep on childproofing and protecting their kids against any bitter experience.
  • Their fear and anxiety get transmitted on to the kids and children gradually learn to be anxious for anything that is out of his comfort zone. Since life is not all about living in comfort zones, when such adults face life challenges they feel fearful and depressed.

Kids Suffer From Low Self Esteem

  • Children of overprotective parents have low self-worth and low self-esteem. They also lack the confidence that is essential to face the world.
  • By showering constant love and affection these parents may emphasize how unique their kids are. Such behavior of parents may lead to developing an ungrounded sense of entitlement into the kids.
  • However, unconsciously these parents transfer the underlying message that kids are really not good enough to manage life on their own.
  • This is how gradually such kids start developing low self-esteem and also suffer from low self-efficiency.

Kids Have Impulsive High-Risk Behaviour

  • Protective parent’s kids have been under pressure throughout their lives. It makes them reserved and fearful.
  • However, these kids also show the wild rebellious phase with high risk-taking behaviors at some point in their lives. Unconsciously these kids try to soothe and compensate for the lack of freedom they experienced in the early stage of lives.

Kids Become Over Perfectionists

  • Overprotective parents may reinforce that everything should always be perfect in any situation. At times they also exhibit narcissistic traits that fear the child that if things are not perfect he will get punished or may face the withdrawal attention of the parents.
  • Such conditional approval and gratification always share the underlying message that kids need to be perfect in order to be loved and accepted.
  • As adults, these kids always act as perfectionists. They always strive to get things best so obsessively, that they often struggle to let go of control.

Kids Lack of Authenticity

  • When in early age the kid is busy getting approval of every little thing and behaving in strict rules and regulations, unfortunately he acquires the inability to express himself clearly.
  • Before expressing his views on anything he always struggles within, that if his opinion or demand is not proper he may not be loved and accepted by parents.
  • Such kids find it very challenging to truly be themselves. They lack authenticity because other’s opinion matters a lot.

Kids Have People-Pleasing Tendencies

  • As we already know, protective parent’s kids grow up under pressure. He thinks in order to be happy, he needs the approval of others. They feel validity from others is very crucial to get accepted in society.
  • It goes hand in hand with a lack of authenticity. Such kids always try to please people in order to be loved and get validations from others. They always fear rejections and disapproval.

To sum up, we should remember that a parent’s job is to nurture their kids with high values and great compassion. Overprotective parents should ease up their narcissistic traits to let kids explore their lives on their own. as loving parents, nurture him with life-essential qualities.  parents should keep practicing realistic life approaches.

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